My sister has a new boyfriend says Tamilla from London escorts. She is really worried about going to bed with him as he is a few years older, and she believes that he has a lot more sexual experience. The fact is, says Tamilla, not all guys who are older have more sexual experience. I know that quite a few of my colleagues here at London escorts have had older boyfriends, and they have had LESS experience in bed. I keep telling my sister not to worry about it, and go to bed and see what happens. We all have different ideas about having sex an making love.
Lucy, also from London escorts, says that she has an older boyfriend. He is a lovely guy, she says, but at ﬁrst did not really want to “play” in bed. I like have fun and may even dress up in some crazy outﬁts from time to time. Perhaps that comes from my job as part of London escorts services, but I just think it is fun. This always used to make my boyfriend feel uncomfortable but he now plays along. It takes all sorts, and after all, sex is suppose to be both pleasurable and fun.
Tanya is another one of Tamilla’s colleagues from London escorts, and she agrees with both girls. You may be worried about disappointing your boyfriend in bed, but what if he feels the same way. During my time at London escorts, I have had a lot of private boyfriends who have been worried about going to bed with a new woman for the ﬁrst time. Men are not always as sexually conﬁdent as we think they are, and we really should take this into account. Many are just as anxious as their new girlfriends are and it is important to take that into account.
I hate going to bed with new boyfriends as well, says Tina from elite London escorts services. It can be really difﬁcult to ﬁnd out what a new partner likes in bed. The problem is that most men that I meet in my private life, don’t talk about it. Also, I get rather annoyed when I notice that they expect me to take the lead. I actually think that a lot of men expect women to take the lead these days, and that can be disappointing for us. Dealing with men is part of the job at London escorts, but dealing with boyfriends is totally different, laughs Lucy.
Going to bed with a new partner can indeed be a very nerve wrecking time. It is a good idea to have an open mind and try to focus away from the actual sex. Laugh, touch and explore, and see what happens. You may not get there the ﬁrst time, but it will get better and better. Eventually you will start to appreciate each others physical and mental needs, and the sex will get better. If it doesn’t, perhaps your new guy is not for you.